What I Want

At some point I'm going to have to think about life as a single gal. Up until now I have been concentrating on getting him out and getting this over with... but once he's gone, then what?

I am not interested in some kind of "capital-R" Relationship... I would rather wash my hair with Clorox than open myself up to the possibility of another disastrous relationship like this one. There were warning signs, and I missed them all. I am apparently not at all good at "capital-R" Relationships.

But eventually I am going to want... something.
I always feel better with a list (or plan of attack, whatever).

So here's what I'm thinking.
I want someone:
to adore me but not need me (you know, in the bad way)
who is past all of the marriage/kids thing
who does not want to live with me
who will pay for stuff - not all the time, but often enough
to travel with
who likes me just the way I am (thank you Mr. Darcy)
who is willing to be my "plus one"
who can cook
with a sense of humor
who likes movies
who is willing to wear handknits (duh)
who can kiss. Really well. Really. Well.

Or I can just be alone. Except for the kissing part I have all of that and more already with my group of friends.